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I don't know when you will see this post. You are only ten months old now.  Advice one:  Please read the book " The richest man in Babylon " keep the book to yourself, or listen the audiobook from youtube. Whenever you will feel you are going through some financial crises then read the book again and again. Take every line from the book very seriously. This book helped me to overcome my financial crises. I do follow the rules from the book.  Don't study to memorize, but study to understand, apply and implement.  It's ok if you fail in your final exam. You dad failed twice for not studying, once in class five and seven. And intentionally dropped years twice in class twelve and once in college final year.. It's ok be afraid of something. Fear isn't your weakness. 

I could never realised it until I became a father. My baby is ten months old. And it's a boy. He is so naughty that he doesn't sit quietly in one place ever when he is awake.  I go to office and my wife takes care of him. I have no idea how she does it.  We are staying in a rental house in Durgapur that is away from home town. When we were at home then my parents used to take care of him when my wife is busy in household works.  But here she gets no help. I have found out one way though. I tie my baby with a soft cloth loosely around his waist with the bed. The cloth is long enough that he can move around the bed and can little bend over the window and can get the outside view.  Our new neighbors talk with him from the window and he does "tata"(waving hand to say bye bye) to them.  When I was little like him then my mother also used to tie me up with windows, chairs etc.  According to my mother I was also very naughty in my childhood. Sometimes ...

Train was 1h 33m late. I was carrying a pram in one hand and 2 bags in other when there was another side bag that was hanging from my solder. My wife Rinky was carrying our 6 month old baby Ridhaan and a ladies side bag.  Our compartment no was D1. At first I thought it will be in the front part of the train but later discovered that the compartment was at the end part.  I found it little difficult to walk faster with the luggage. My wife was walking in front of me at little distance.  When we reached almost the end, train started moving.  I told my wife to board in the train whatever coach it was. And I myself entered into the nearest coach. With the pram and luggage it was very difficult to enter through the gate.  Passengers who were standing at the gate didn't bother helping me with the luggage. Even didn't make me way to enter easily.  My wife also struggled to enter the running train with her hand bag and the baby. My wife told me that if she wasn't h...

I recently came to know some people feel SAD in winter. I remember when I was school student then I used to feel sadness during winter. I didn't know that it is actually  Seasonal Affective Disorder . And it was not only me who feels like that. It is kind of a mood disorder also know as depression. During my HS exam doctor prescribed me anti depression tablets because that time I was suffering from depression and migraine.  Choosing the right doctor is very important for any phycological treatments. I went to doctors to doctors from general physician, psychiatrists, neurologist to neuropsychiatrist in the year of 2012 and 2013. The problem was new to me and I knew nothing about this kind of problem. I was also scared.  A general physician can't treat mental illness it is the work of psychiatrists or neuropsychiatrist. I problem was solved when I finally met one neuropsychiatrist. I was prescribed only one anti depression tablet that solve all my problems.  I was neve...

I chose Rinky as my beloved wife because I found some valuable characteristics in her. One year after our marriage I found that I was not wrong about her.  I am 6'1" in height and she is 5'9". She is slim tall and fair in colour. She looks attractive to me. These were the basic reasons to feel attract towards her. But only outer look wasn't enough to me to choose someone to become the love of my life forever.  The first day I meet her I started observing her. I ask her different questions and carefully observed her answers. I also wanted to give her costly gifts and checked her reaction towards them.  I checked her behaviour with friends family and the reaction in different situations.  I also asked her point of view about marriage and how she wants to spend her future with her husband.  Our love story went for three months and then I married her. I found that she was the one. Before her I was confused and little afraid of marriage. But after meeting her I knew ...

 Today I woke up at 7:30 AM as the new student came for his first spoken English class. His name is Ayusman and he is in class 7. His English is not like other Bengali medium students. It felt like he is from a English Medium school background. It is really good of his parents who realized the need for a Spoken English tuition. 99% parents of the Bengali medium schools don't know that their children need a special English class if the student is studying in a Bengali Medium school.  I have seen worst cases if the student is from a govt Bengali Medium school from childhood. I compare the knowledge of the students of same level of education but from different schools. And I found the result that a better school always makes a better student but sadly the better school is always a private school.   I also found that students who take extra mathematics like classes like abacus got sharper brain and are more attentive to learning and understanding. After a long time I wok...

I walked here and there and did whatever came in my way or someone advised me to do because I couldn't foresee my destination. But now I know my destination. I need to follow only one path now. I may reach sooner or later but I will must reach my destination if not distracted.  I must make plans and execute them to reach my destination. This should be only one work of my life till I achieve it.