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My advice to my child - Why its important to study?

I know as a child you may dislike studying like I used to do. You may not understand the importance of studying at an early age but it is the only thing that will stay with you for a lifetime. Education will differentiate you with others. The more you educate yourself the more you will find less competition. You should know that lots of people complete the 10th standard. The Tenth standard is the very basic level of education. Like in your favourite game when you complete your first level it's like that. You will know that fewer people start their journey to the next level, that is 10+2. For example if 100 students take the 10th standard exam then only 80 students will start their journey for 10+2. I believe you want to be counted in 80 students because you don't like losing. After tenth standard you will see the stream of education will be divided into a few parts Science, Arts, Commerce and polytechnic. You should know which stream can take you where.  Like in Harry Potter an...

Budget planning for the month of October 2021

Credit Card Room Rent 4000 8097 Charge 40 Drainage Electrycity 350 apx Charge 7 apx Drainage Credit card Charge 700 apx Drainage Monthly Grocery 1000 Train Tickets 2000 Paytm 2612 Mobile Recharge 398 ?2gb+12gb? Mobile Recharge 79 Mobile Recharge 79 Internet 98 Use company sim Medicine 625 Cerelac 544 Train Tickets Birthday Gift 789 Savings Account 13146 Gas 440 4kg Investment Bajaj EMI 2994 Must Utilize HDFC EMI 1400 Bad debt Vegetables 500 Fish 500 1.25kg Chicken 250 1kg Fruit 400 Liquid Milk Local Grocery 250 10P Muri Local Grocery 60 2P Chal Local Grocery 400 10kg Suji Local Grocery 25 500g Egg Local Grocery 240 40P Evening Snacks 200 Street Food 200 Biriyani 300 Ridhaan Injection 2200 Savings Recurring Deposite 200 Investment Bitcoin Investment 100 Pampers 480 3chain, 48P ola Water jar 300 6Jar Savings APY 292 TOTO 240 Street TEA 50 BUS 100 Baby Products 220 oil, body wash Investment Web Hosting 235 Must Utilize Investment Content Writing Payment 500 Paytm Charge 70 Drainage Grand ...

My advices to my child Ridhaan

I don't know when you will see this post. You are only ten months old now.  Advice one:  Please read the book " The richest man in Babylon " keep the book to yourself, or listen the audiobook from youtube. Whenever you will feel you are going through some financial crises then read the book again and again. Take every line from the book very seriously. This book helped me to overcome my financial crises. I do follow the rules from the book.  Don't study to memorize, but study to understand, apply and implement.  It's ok if you fail in your final exam. You dad failed twice for not studying, once in class five and seven. And intentionally dropped years twice in class twelve and once in college final year.. It's ok be afraid of something. Fear isn't your weakness. 

How difficult can raising a small baby be to parent's?

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I could never realised it until I became a father. My baby is ten months old. And it's a boy. He is so naughty that he doesn't sit quietly in one place ever when he is awake.  I go to office and my wife takes care of him. I have no idea how she does it.  We are staying in a rental house in Durgapur that is away from home town. When we were at home then my parents used to take care of him when my wife is busy in household works.  But here she gets no help. I have found out one way though. I tie my baby with a soft cloth loosely around his waist with the bed. The cloth is long enough that he can move around the bed and can little bend over the window and can get the outside view.  Our new neighbors talk with him from the window and he does "tata"(waving hand to say bye bye) to them.  When I was little like him then my mother also used to tie me up with windows, chairs etc.  According to my mother I was also very naughty in my childhood. Sometimes ...

Places where we need improvement

Train was 1h 33m late. I was carrying a pram in one hand and 2 bags in other when there was another side bag that was hanging from my solder. My wife Rinky was carrying our 6 month old baby Ridhaan and a ladies side bag.  Our compartment no was D1. At first I thought it will be in the front part of the train but later discovered that the compartment was at the end part.  I found it little difficult to walk faster with the luggage. My wife was walking in front of me at little distance.  When we reached almost the end, train started moving.  I told my wife to board in the train whatever coach it was. And I myself entered into the nearest coach. With the pram and luggage it was very difficult to enter through the gate.  Passengers who were standing at the gate didn't bother helping me with the luggage. Even didn't make me way to enter easily.  My wife also struggled to enter the running train with her hand bag and the baby. My wife told me that if she wasn't h...

Mental sickness in winter

I recently came to know some people feel SAD in winter. I remember when I was school student then I used to feel sadness during winter. I didn't know that it is actually  Seasonal Affective Disorder . And it was not only me who feels like that. It is kind of a mood disorder also know as depression. During my HS exam doctor prescribed me anti depression tablets because that time I was suffering from depression and migraine.  Choosing the right doctor is very important for any phycological treatments. I went to doctors to doctors from general physician, psychiatrists, neurologist to neuropsychiatrist in the year of 2012 and 2013. The problem was new to me and I knew nothing about this kind of problem. I was also scared.  A general physician can't treat mental illness it is the work of psychiatrists or neuropsychiatrist. I problem was solved when I finally met one neuropsychiatrist. I was prescribed only one anti depression tablet that solve all my problems.  I was neve...

A perfect girl to marry with

I chose Rinky as my beloved wife because I found some valuable characteristics in her. One year after our marriage I found that I was not wrong about her.  I am 6'1" in height and she is 5'9". She is slim tall and fair in colour. She looks attractive to me. These were the basic reasons to feel attract towards her. But only outer look wasn't enough to me to choose someone to become the love of my life forever.  The first day I meet her I started observing her. I ask her different questions and carefully observed her answers. I also wanted to give her costly gifts and checked her reaction towards them.  I checked her behaviour with friends family and the reaction in different situations.  I also asked her point of view about marriage and how she wants to spend her future with her husband.  Our love story went for three months and then I married her. I found that she was the one. Before her I was confused and little afraid of marriage. But after meeting her I knew ...